Foundation Of Marriage is Teamwork

 Are you having issues in your marriage and not knowing how to fix it?  Are you ready to give up?  Let me give you some tips that will help you...

First,  answer this question. Why did you decide to marry your spouse?  What drew you to them?  Did you see yourself growing more in love for one another for the rest of your life?  If not, then maybe you both need to rethink and start fresh with your motivation for marriage. If your answer is yet, then pay attention...

God said in Genesis 2:24 and Matthew 19:5 that man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall be one flesh.

What is One flesh?  You both are a TEAM, as husband and wife. You and your spouse have different qualities that merge together so you can build a successful family and live in harmony.  Your team environment really means that you work together to build your family and life.  You love one another and encourage one another. You comfort and support each other in all things.  You are NOT 2 separate people who just live different dreams and outcomes.  You are best friends who listen to each other, care about one another's ups and downs and want the very best for them.  You are not living 2 separate lives in one house with occasional love making to fulfill your desires and then move on to your separate lives again.  You are one flesh.  

God designed marriage to be this way because He knew that we would be raising our kids and our family with future grandkids who become our next generational family.  

That's why God said in Ephesians 5:22-25 Wives, submit to your husbands, as to the Lord.  The husband is the head of the wife, as Christ is the head of the church and He is the savior of the body.  Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her.

1 Peter 3:7 Husbands, likewise, dwell with them in understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered. 

So, we need to honor each other. Respect each other and care about one another's needs.  Be grateful toward your spouse when they do something for you. Be appreciative of their support and care for your needs.  Be a good listener and understand their hurts and concerns, whatever those may be.  Be humble and apologize when you are wrong. Period.  True love will want to do this.  Be present when they are talking to you.   You are ONE flesh. You are a TEAM that needs to stick together during the storms of life and not pull away. Forgive each other and be gracious. 

Pray for one another. Pray together.  Put God first and I promise, you will want to love your spouse more. Loving God enables you to see your own shortcomings and desire to do better in all parts of your life.  

Letter From Jesus

 My Precious Friend,

The night before My death, I want you to understand, it was you that was on my mind.  I desired to have a relationship with you, to spend eternity with you in heaven.  Yet, sin separated you from Me and My Father.  The law required that an acceptable sacrifice of innocent blood was needed for the payment of your sins.  I came to fulfill the law so you wouldn't have to.  It was the only thing that could be done to pay the price completely so that our relationship could be forever restored.

The hour had come when I was going to be tortured and killed for you.  With heaviness of heart, I went out to the garden to pray.  In agony of soul, I sweat drops of blood as I cried out, "oh My Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me.  nevertheless, not as I will, but as thou wilt." Matthew 26:39

While I was in the garden the soldiers came to arrest Me even though I was innocent of any crime.  They brought Me before Pilate's hall.  I stood before My accusers.  Then Pilate took Me and had me beaten and whipped.  Lacerations cut deeply as I took the beating for you.  The soldiers placed a crown of thorns on My head and put Me in a purple robe.  Blood flowed down My face.  There is no beauty that anyone would desire Me.  Then the cheering crowd, shouting, "Crucify Him. Crucify Him!" as I stood there silently, bloody, bruised and beaten. Despised and rejected of men.  Pilate sought to release Me but gave in to the pressure of the crowd.  "Take Him, and crucify Him for I find no faulty in Him" He said to them. Then he delivered Me to be crucified.  You were on my mind when I carried My cross up the lonesome hill to Golgotha.  It was My love for you, and to do My Father's Will, that gave Me the strength to bear beneath its heavy load.  There, I bore your grief and I carried your sorrows laying down My life so you could have life abundantly with Me.  The soldiers sneered giving heavy blows of the hammer driving the n ails deeply into My hands and feet.  Love nailed your sins to the cross, never to be death with again.  They hoisted Me up and left Me to die.  Yet, they did not take My life.  I willingly gave it for you.  The sky grew black.  Even the sun stopped shining. My body wracked with excruciating pain took the weight of your sin and bore its punishment so that the wrath of God could be satisfied and you could be free from guilt.  When all things were accomplished, I committed My spirit into My Father's hands, and breathed out my final words, "It is finished."

Greater love hath no man than this:  that a man lay down his life for his friends. John 15:13  

This is what I did because I desired so much for you to come into my love.

I have done everything I possibly could to demonstrate my love for you.  I have washed you clean, ransomed you back, redeemed you, sanctified you, forgave you, and healed you.  Now I extend my nail pierced hand and say, come follow me.

I love you...

Jesus

Love And Discipline For Our Kids?

         

        The definition of LOVE these days can be very backwards.  Loving someone does not mean you affirm their behavior. You can love all people without agreeing with choices they make. When it comes to our own kids, loving them sometimes means we need to be tough and loving by telling them the truth, explaining things to them they need you to explain so that they can understand.  Discipline is an action of love when done properly. 

Psalm 127:3 Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb is a reward. 

Love for our kids is very different than our love for our future spouses. First, our future/current spouses were strangers when we met them and not related to us when we decided to marry them. Of course, God says, when we get married, we become ONE flesh....anyway, Our kids come from us. A part of me and a part of the father of my kids make them so connected to us as family and legacy of future generations.  Growing in our womb for 9 months, seeing them in our womb, feeling them move as they grow in our bodies is an amazingly beautiful and sacred journey for us, as moms.  Yes, some of us get morning sickness, etc but pregnancy is a huge part of a Mom's journey to love and be there for our kids forever.  Seeing them for the first time once they pop out of our birth canal is emotional.  

Proverbs 29:15  The rod and rebuke give wisdom, but a child left to himself brings shame to his mother. 

As moms, we want to do all that we are able, to keep them safe, feed them and bathe them, hold them with love and pray over them regularly. Of course, every moms journey is not the same. Some are very young and were not prepared mentally so they had challenges they didn't know to prepare for. Some moms really didn't want to have a child or didn't have a husband they could lean on during the process. I realize that not every situation is the best, but for the most part, Moms will love their child unconditionally forever. If you are a Mom, you definitely understand.

Raising our kids with love is not always easy because we always want to do the right thing at the moment.  Sometimes it may not seem right to discipline them.  Especially if we are first time young moms. But, the Bible is very clear on how we need to raise them. Unfortunately, when I was a young mom, I was not close to God. I knew Him but wasn't living for Him at the age of 19.  I fell away like many do after high school. The journey of becoming an independent adult for the first time, after leaving our parents, was a bit confusing for me back then. 

When it comes to disciplining your child with LOVE, God never wants us to do it in anger or disgust.  He requires us to do it with patience and grace toward our kids so they can learn what is wrong and what is right behavior.  Depending on their age, you will discipline according to what they actually did. Never just slap or punch them in a knee jerk reaction!  Of course, if you are married, then you will need to discuss how you will both do it and be in agreement about it before you have kids.  

You take them aside privately and sit on your couch or bed and explain what they did and why it was wrong. Then, optionally, you can tell them to bend over and slap them on their behind once or twice.  Ask them if they are sorry and pray with them.  Of course, the older they get, into teen years, hitting them on their behind is not going to work, in my opinion. But you may need to just take things away from them(cell phone, etc) temporarily and or send them to their room for a bit.  The point is to make sure they understand what they did was wrong, and give them something to think about in the future. Prayer with them would be helpful too.  Tell them you love them and forgive them after the disciplinary action. 

Yes, that is parental love and it is not abuse, if done correctly.  I did not have to do this often with my kids, but their Dad and I did do it when needed. I learned as time passed, like most of us.

Proverbs 1:8  My son, hear the instruction of your father, and do not forsake the law of your mother; for they will be a graceful ornament on you head, and chains about your neck.  My son, if sinners entice you, do not consent. If they say, "come with us, let us lie in wait to shed blood; Let us lurk secretly for the innocent without cause; Let us swallow them alive like Sheol, and whole, like those who go down to the Pit; We shall find all kinds of precious possessions, We shall fill our houses with spoil; Cast in your lot among us, Let us all have one purse:" MY Son, do NOT walk in the way with them, keep your foot from their path; for their feet run to evil, and they make haste to she blood.  

Spiritual Warfare is a Thing

             What is spiritual warfare?  After living most of my life as a Christian, it wasn't until literally a few months ago that the spiritual attacks were in my face, trying to kick me down into the pit.  You know, when you feel the devil trying to disappoint you with horrible thoughts.  The lies that come into your mind to try and discourage and destroy your faith? 

My deliverance came almost 8 months ago, when I surrendered my alcohol problem to my heavenly Father out of pure desperation and God totally set me free and delivered me from so much heaviness and pain.  Now that I am not influenced by alcohol and I can think straight, plus I'm not having pity parties, I can now see the Holy Spirit moving in my life.  Of course, the devil will do anything to stop our journey  by speaking into our ears with bitterness, lies of who we are and how bad we will continue to be.  

 In spite of the attacks,  I could clearly see God in a whole new light with more faith.  I am so much more aware of God's love and mercy.  I am praying more and can actually hear the spirit of God speaking to my heart and directing my path.  

So, why would we be spiritually attacked?  First, when you surrender to God your entire life and allow Him to be in charge, the devil will do all he can to discourage you.  But, Guess what? When you surrender, God then will use you for greater things, because you have decided to trust Him with your life and you want to share how much God has done for you.  That is exactly what I've been experiencing recently.

That is why I'm writing my story. I want to encourage you if you are going through the same thing now.  I've been a mostly healthy person my entire life. I started having pain in my back, for no known reason, about 3 months ago and found out it was Sciatica nerve pain that is truly painful day and night. The funny thing is, I know it is an attack on me because of what I'm doing for God so I laugh at the devil and pray for healing.  We had some attacks from a neighbor recently also.  That is finished but it was bad when it happened. 

The irony of it all, is now I have so much faith that I have never had before so when a spiritual attack begins, I know what it is and I shake it off immediately and tell the devil to get out!  In Jesus name, we do have authority over the enemy.  When you know that, and you take action against the enemy spiritually, things will never be the same!  God is faithful.  If you are being called by God to walk a new journey, obey Him and take one step of faith at a time. He will guide you so when you do experience spiritual warfare, you will not allow it to stumble you or get you off track.  Praise God and know that He has you! 

Are You Willing To Die For Your Faith?

 

With all that is going on right now in the world today, I'm sure you may have had this question in your mind also.  I had to answer that question for myself. After seeing Charlie Kirk murdered in public last month, a young 31 year old husband father and man of God, my faith was definitely awakened and inspired to walk out by faith.  I know many friends and my son who were changed with so much faith and wanting to follow Charlie's example. 

After much thought and prayer about all that is happening in our society today, I truly believe with all my heart that God is calling me to do more and share more. More about my Heavenly Father, His word...the Bible, His promises and love for the world. His desire for all to come to Him and be set free from sin. To draw near to Him for comfort and purpose.  

With all that, includes the possibility of persecution while we are sharing the gospel to others on a daily basis.  As a Christian, I am ready, willing and able to do what God calls me to do and endure whatever  consequences may come about, I'll do it anyway.  Obeying God to speak love, life and fullness of God's mercy and grace is an honor to do, so that the lost can hear the truth and be saved. 

My heart goes out to the lost and deceived.  We should not have fear or hesitation while sharing with others the truth.  If they are not interested, just move on peacefully and bless them.  If they are interested in hearing more and have questions, continue speaking and ask God to fill your mouth with the right words for each person's situation.  

Ask yourself this very important question....Are you willing to die for your faith? Many of think that we have such a painful life but there are always others with more pain...

Watch this CBN news Youtube video link below!

CBN News Nigerian Christians Martyred

16 Years Of Silence

 

Putting all my thoughts together when I write, is sometimes difficult because I have so many subjects I believe I need to share and talk about it. This subject for today's post, has been in my life for 16+ years now.  My youngest daughter went to Bible college and we were excited that she wanted to go. Shortly after, she told  us she met a guy.  Ok, we were excited for that as well, since he was enrolled with her at the college. We assumed he was a Christian. They came to visit us for the weekend and they argued a few times.  We told them they had to in sleep separate bedrooms and maybe that was the issue.  She was about 20 years old at that point.  He was nice to us but very distant. 

A few months later, she told me they were getting married and so she came alone and I took her and my 2 other daughters to a beautiful bridal shop nearby. It was a very emotional day for the 4 of us.  She left and then told me a week later that she did not know when they were getting married yet so everything was on hold temporarily.  Then, a couple of months after that, I found out through my other daughter that she had gotten married to him!! I was devastated and immediately called her husband.  I asked why he didn't tell us and when was the actual date. He said, "It's none of your business." 

Huh? He turned a 360 and didn't want to give us any information. I was so angry, not so much that they didn't have a big family wedding that we would have paid for, but him not wanting me to know their actual date of marriage. Not something, we as moms ever dream would happen.  

During that time, my husband and I knew we were going to lose our home that we had tried to save with bankruptcy over 5 years.  The house wasn't worth what we purchased it for and we were done so we moved to Florida. We told our 2 daughters including the one who had just gotten married that they could all stay there until the bank took it back.  Temporary, but it would be free and they did move in.  We asked him to make sure to cut the grass with our lawn mower and he refused.  He literally thought we were being racist because we asked him to cut the grass, and we did not ask our daughters to do it. Then we got a call from our neighbor that said she saw him beating his dogs who were also with them in our home. She said she called dog rescue and they took the dogs from them. They moved out after that and went back to Texas.

My daughter did come visit us in Florida one time alone.  She put make up on her face, texted a picture of herself with make up to her husband and he immediately told her to take it off. Another shocker for me. What is going on here?  By 2016, my husband and I bought another home and we hadn't seen her for a couple of years.  She did start calling me to correct me about Bible scripture and I found out she and her husband were into the Black Hebrew Israelites cult.  I went on a rampage of investigation and learning all I can about it. It is NOT good at all, but now I understood why he was the way he was toward us and even my daughter. He was originally raised by his father, who was a Muslim, which was bad in itself. But now this? And, why would he go to a Christian Bible college? I'll never know. 

Fast forward to 2020 and we invited them to come visit us since we had planned a family get together. He was not going to come and I asked her to please come with him since he is part of our family and it was a while since we had seen him. We offered to pay for his flight, so he came.  We had a large family dinner at the house and my sister n law started talking to him about BLM riots that were very big that summer. He responded by arguing with my sister n law and my brother while my husband and I were outside with a few other family members. 

My husband went in the house to stop them, but they didn't stop.  A few minutes later, we went in again and they were not done.  Why my sister n law would start a conversation with a young black man about BLM in the first place, I'll never understand, but they ended up leaving.. My daughter and her husband came outside and he continued talking. My daughter was very respectful but not her husband who, after a few minutes was calling me white racist pig, etc.  My husband had to tell them to leave. My heart was broken for my daughter who never said anything while he was calling me names. Obviously, he is very controlling, which is probably why she said nothing. That was the last time I spoke to her or saw her.

Almost 2 years ago now, she gave birth to their first child and I have never met or seen this baby.  The only reason I found out about her being pregnant was because she met my mom in Puerto Rico with her mother n law right before my grand daughter was born.  Since then, my daughter has not communicated with any of her family including myself.  

It is estrangement but not because I ever had any relationship issues with her.  It was her husband who coerced her to believe we were no good by fighting with us when we last saw him.  He made it very clear that she should  never talk to us again because we are racist. Well, that's a lie since my first husband, my four kids" father, was black.  I am Puerto Rican and would never marry someone and have kids with a black man IF I was racist.  

I pray for my daughter who is now 36 years old.  It is very sad that she would, from the very beginning, not call me on her own to tell me that they were going to get married alone instead of having a big wedding. It all started because of him and I pray for him too.  

Need Prayer? Join our Private Weekly Prayer Hub!

 

Hi Momma's! 

I've been wanting to open a private prayer hub on Facebook and I think it is time to open the doors.  If you are a Mom who needs prayer for your estranged adult kids, for your relationship with your spouse, financial issues or anything at all, we will begin this private group to pray for each other twice a week in the morning. Every Monday and Tuesday mornings at 12pm Central for now. (Tuesday time updated) We can change it anytime of needed but for now let's start there. 

Christian Moms Prayer Hub is the name of our new private prayer group. 

Here is the link: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1MLMFU7wFg/

FYI...You do not have to be a Mom to join us for prayer. 

Luke 10:19  Jesus said, Behold I give you authority to trample on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing shall by any means hurt you.

Matthew 16:19  Jesus said, And I will give you all the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.

Prayer is powerful when we use the authority God has given us as believers by faith.  Let's get together and pray for our families, communities, churches and our country. Whatever you need prayer for, we will lift it up to heaven for God to move on your behalf.  Let's do this together! 

                                                                    Eileen Brigantino

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Trusting God Brings Growth

         

        Trusting God can sometimes be difficult.  We pray and pray for God to do something really important and we don't see Him answering us.. No matter what is going on or not going on and you are disappointed, it can be hard to have faith. But what is faith?  How can we have faith and trust God?  Faith is trusting our God who we can not see but we believe that He is a good God. Faith IS believing when you do not see results in your timing.  Remember, God is working even when we do not see it!  

        The irony of it all, is in life, God brings us through "fire" of trials and low places so we can move out of it eventually, learn from it and we will SEE why He did it, once we get through it. That is a promise. I've been there and I know beyond a shadow of any doubts that God is faithful and will do it. But, if for some reason He doesn't do it at all, we will also understand why... when we draw near to Him.  I know it's not always easy but God is the creator of our universe and He created us with purpose and a plan.  He also created us with FREE will to choose our steps. He wants us to go to Him for wisdom so we will make wise choices but He does not make us do anything.  

Mark 11:23-24 For assuredly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, be removed and be cast into the see, and does Not doubt in his heart, but believes that those things he says will be done, he will have whatever he says. Whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them.

        Remember, God is not Santa Claus.  You don't wish for things from God and not ever have a relationship with Him. He wants us to draw near to Him and learn who He is and what He desires of  us. A relationship with Him, not just, "Answer my prayer now please.." Be patient and wait on the Lord.

        God is faithful and gracious. He is merciful and loves us more than we could ever imagine. Learn to trust Him in your most difficult times and He will be with you in the "fire". He walks with us and comforts us while we are going through it. He will never leave us. 

Wake Up Church!

 Have you noticed the news about Islamic religion is spreading quickly across America?  How the mayor of  Dearborn, Michigan told a Christian resident that he wasn't welcome in that city? Did you know that the Islamic religion leaders(Islamic terrorists) have a mission to take over the world? There are thousands of Christians in Nigeria right now, being murdered every month and all over the world but we don't hear about it. The news is silent. School shootings and violence are way up too.  

I am very disturbed by all that is going on here and around the world.  It is awakening my faith, questioning my Heavenly Father what we need to do as Christians.  We love all people and this country has religious freedom. This is good but if any "religion" that has a foundation of violence and hatred toward non believers (infidels) like Christians and Jews here in America, then we need to get involved peacefully and prayerfully with strategic intervention.  The church has been stuck within the four walls of the church building for many years. Obviously, there are a few that get out on the street and preach the gospel but most of us have not.  

The assassination of Charlie Kirk last month has brought about a revival of believers to get out and share our faith. Many have given their hearts to the Lord for the first time, or came back to their faith. Encouraged by Charlie's work, dedication to having peaceful conversations about life, politics and His faith.  I literally freaked out from shock when I heard that he was shot while he was doing his ministry work on campus. The Holy Spirit of God is stirring us up, because it is way past time for us to mobilize and gather in public spaces to share the truth of the gospel of Jesus Christ.  

When I was a young teenager learning for the first time about the "end times" and Jesus coming back one day, it literally seemed like it was so far in the future that it would happen after I died of old age.  Now that I just turned 59, It feels like it will be much sooner than what I ever believed.  The sign of the times is here.  The news of digital currency and Christian persecution spreading deeper throughout the world are just 2 examples. My prayer is that the church would wake up, and ask God for fearless courage.  

There is so much evil going on in this world and in America, and we need to wake up!  I'm awake. I know because my Mom passed away in April of this year and it hit me hard.  She was a good mom and she became a Christian which in turn, opened the door for me to get saved and changed my life forever. I'm so grateful for that.  Her passing motivated me to seek God and surrender everything to Him. God delivered me from alcoholism and took the heavy weight and pain from my estranged adult kids. God set me free and now I know God has a calling on my life to share my testimony and encourage other Moms and families to trust our Heavenly Father.  My message is, Let's do this together!  

                                                              Me and My Momma! 

Breaking Generational Curses

 

    There is a deep history of divorce, witchcraft and alcoholism in my family going back a few generations that I know of.  My Mom's side had the alcohol issues and my Dad's side had witchcraft and lots of divorces when divorce was not even popular like it is now.  When it comes to generational curses, we may not know all of it in some cases, but you can still break them!  I have 4 adult kids, 2 adult stepsons and 4 grandchildren so far. I don't want the curses to continue, which is why I did some research on the matter.

Look up one of my previous post on August 12, 2025 about spiritual warfare where I read a book shared to me by a friend and this book, written by  Bern Zumpano,  published in 1999.  So, even though I understood spiritual warfare for  many years, I'm using his information  which is organized in such a way for me to share and make it easier for others to understand. 

There are multiple scriptures in the Bible that explain our authority, as believers, to pray effectively.  With faith and understanding of our God given authority, we will have more success.

Matthew 16:19 I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven and whatever you bind on earth, will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.

Luke 10:19 Behold, I give you the authority to trample on serpents and scorpions and over all the power of the enemy and nothing shall by any means hurt you.

1 John 4:4 You are of God, little children, and have overcome them, because He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world.

These are only 3 basic scriptures where Jesus is talking to his disciples giving us spiritual authority while praying. There are many more that I'll share in future posts but I'll start with these 3 today.

I believe that my Mom is the first generation to stop the curse. She was delivered many years ago and never went back. I do not believe that she prayed to remove the generational curse though, so I am  doing it now. My father is not a Christian as of today so any generational curses do need to be removed also.  

Foundation of Curses and How to remove them:

1. Understand the reality of curses spoken of in the Bible.  

2. Sin opens the door to demonic curses. As unbelievers, we live in sin without the redemption of Jesus, so it will continue until we personally get saved and remove it.

3.Understand that when we do get saved, it is our spirit that is set free from sin through the blood of Jesus, dying on the cross and raised from the dead. His gift was a true sacrifice for all of us who accept it, confess and turn away from our sin.

4.  Our soul is not saved. Basically, our thoughts have to be renewed daily by asking God to renew our mind(soul)  so we do not listen to lies of the devil who only wants to kill, steal and destroy us. He does not have the power once we surrender our mind and thoughts to the Holy Spirit daily because we love God.  Deliverance comes when we truly believe the Word of God is TRUE.

5.  God gave us the authority in the Spirit realm to break power of curses in our family.

6. We want to obey God because that is where our blessing comes from.

7.  Respond to the devil by Ignoring those thoughts that you know are not from God! Do not fear.   

8.  Live life with expectation of God's goodness and Honor God in everything we do. 

                                Prayer for Breaking Generational Curses

Lord Jesus Christ, I confess to you all the sins of my ancestors and predecessors, my spouse's ancestors and predecessors, on all sides of all our families, back to our families origins.  I repent, on their behalf, for all their sins that caused the problem or generations curse or curses to come into our family lines.  In particular, I repent of all of their past sexual sins, of all sins of witchcraft or idolatry, and confess them to YOU, repent for them, and renounce them before YOU, right now, Lord Jesus Christ.  I repent for all whom they may have hurt by their past actions and sins, and ask Your forgiveness for all of their past harm to others.  I bless them to 1000 generations. I ask all these things of You, Lord Jesus Christ, in Your Holy Name.          AMEN!

Estranged Adult Kids

 

        

        There are so many reasons why our adult kids walk away from their family. Every situation is different.  In my experience with other moms who have shared with  me their story, many times it's because they walked away from their faith in God and didn't want to hear about it or be around it anymore.  Another reason is they were neglected or abused by someone early on as a child by someone other than their parents. That experience, you may not have even heard or known about because they didn't share it with you.  So, the enemy steps in when they go to expensive therapy sessions.  The therapist will ask about their childhood and it always will come back to us as parents.  The therapist does not encourage conversation with parents or healing of the relationship. They just focus on the pain that most times is not derived from the parents but they will believe that it's best to stay away from us. Now we become the enemy to our own adult kids. 

The irony of it all is our adult kids will eventually have kids and make mistakes too because that is life. Most of us do our best to raise our kids but we will all make mistakes, including our kids who want to stay away from us for our mistakes. 

The truth of the matter is, the enemy is deceitful and wants to destroy family relationships by indoctrinating people through the education system, through social media and other places over time to believe that family is not important.  That God is Not real. You don't need to get married. You can get rid of a baby in your womb if you don't want it.  Marriage means nothing.  Stay away from the moms and dads who raised you and you don't need to honor them because they must have looked at you the wrong way or punished you for skipping school one day. That we can be our own God.  

That is why I believe that we need to come together as Moms of faith to believe God for our kids.  We wrestle not against flesh and blood(people) but against spiritual wickedness in high places. This is spiritual warfare that we need to believe God to heal our adults minds and bring the Love of God back into their lives.  

Our Prodigals are coming home!

 

Here is my newest youtube video link!  Short but sweet and filled with encouragement!  

Our blog is still here on Blogger, but we added our NEW website to our SuccessFromTheSource.com domain so that you can now subscribe to our newsletter for updates. The link to our blog is on our new website for now.  

Also,  I will be starting a Momma's Prayer Hub very soon.  We will have a community morning prayer one time per week for about 30 minutes. I'll share the exact date that we begin the prayer hub in our newsletter. It will be taking place most likely on Mondays.  If you are a Mom with an estranged adult kid, please watch this and share to other moms you know who may need some encouragement. 

https://youtu.be/-J_nsdCEz5U   

America, Who Are You?

 I'm not going to lie...I am not happy with our country right now.  I was always so patriotic in the past but over the past 5 years, my view of America has severely gone down.  To clarify, I believe that most of the people here are good people.  I'm speaking of our government and the banking system. 

This flag used to mean so much to me along with all of the military who sacrificed their time and even their lives to defend our country and constitution.  I'll always respect and honor the military individuals who fought for us, but they did not know how corrupt our government is and was, when they signed up.    As of  now, our government higher ups have lied to us for over 100 years.   

The lies began to unfold for me with covid in 2020.  The entire covid ring was a hoax.  It was a test to control us by dividing us with mandating the stupid vaccine, keeping us home and out of church, masking us. I had 2 close family members on 2 different occasions, sit down with me and my husband to shame us for refusing the jab.  Now they should be ashamed for what they did, but I digress. 

 Second, finding out that our government has been wasting so much of our hard earned money on garbage that we didn't know about, is terrifying. Lobbying in congress should be illegal because of the bribery and money laundering that controls those who we have voted for.  I'll get into that subject another day.  Just learning of the lies that have literally awakened us to our slavery,  has changed my view of America and the entire world, for that matter.

My first suggestion is to do your own research. I will share documents and other legal things here and in my videos but you will need to "see" it and understand it before you could ever believe how bad things are. In the mean time, I know God knows what is going on and knows our future so all we can do as Christians, is trust God, remember His promises and do all we can to share the truth, the gospel of Jesus and salvation.

Thank you to President Trump who is working hard right now.  There is so much damage from the previous administration, it will be difficult to correct everything over the next 3+ years but I know he will do much. 

Let's remember to pray for our country, our president and all who work with him for protection and wisdom to do all that is constitutionally correct. I'll get into the banking system in my next post...

 

Charlie Kirk And My Son

         As you probably already know, Charlie Kirk was murdered recently on September 10th, while speaking at a Utah college campus for students.  He was a 31 year old husband, father and lover of Jesus who started Turning Point USA many years ago.  He was highly influential with his faith and conservative values to people of all ages, but mostly the younger generation because that was his mission.  He was killed for the Christian values he lived out daily and spoke of.  He was not afraid to get into the trenches, share truth, and debate peacefully with those who did not agree with him. 

My son, who is 28 years old and loves Jesus, was highly influenced and inspired by Charlies work. He actually met Charlie at his church 5 years ago.  Prior to meeting Charlie, he messaged him on Instagram to share how much he appreciated Charlies inspiring words and how it changed his life and faith. Charlie responded shortly after with kind words.  

 There are literally millions of young adults who loved Charlie and his message.  I was taken back so emotionally when I found out he was murdered a couple of days ago. At the same time, I realized that Charlies message that was inspired by God, can and will continue through us all!  It's time. Time for us as a church to stand up and speak about the gospel of love, repentance and new life in Jesus for all.  It's time for us to live out or faith without fear.  After all, the followers of Jesus in the Bible died for preaching the truth and now that we are in the end times, that should not deter us, if we are truly followers and lovers of God. Are you willing to live for Jesus and die for Him?

We need to get outside of the church building and not only rely on us inviting people to church to hear the truth. We need to speak it ourselves in our homes, on the streets and where ever the door opens for us to share God's Word.  Love our neighbors also.  

Remember this:  The devil wants to separate us all. The devil is teaching the lost that WE are hateful, which is not the truth, but a horrible lie.  The devil wants to break down the foundation of families and society.   My prayer is that we as Christian believers will stand up, walk in love and forgiveness to encourage those around us to band together as communities and families.  Even if we do not agree, we need to stick together because the devil wants the lost to hate us.  We pray for their salvation and that the truth would remove the scales from their eyes!  God, allow the lost to see you and want to know you whole heartedly.  Help us, as believers to encourage and reach the lost to surrender to you, God! 

Let's do this together!

Do you want to know Jesus?

 You will know that God is touching your heart, when you start questioning what you have heard about the Bible in the past.  If you have questions about the Bible or Jesus Christ,  then know that it is God who wants to reach you and show you the truth that will set you free. 

I remember when I was about 12 years old...I began going to a nice church with my mom in Long Island. It was called Love Church.  I had known friends who believed in God but I had never heard about salvation or knowing Jesus until I started going to church with my mom who had just gave her heart to the Lord.  She stopped drinking alcohol and smoking permanently after attending a weekend women's Christian retreat. 

 I remember giving my heart to Jesus because I had this "revelation" of who God was while reading the Bible for the first time.  Reading the red letters written in the Bible, (which was Jesus speaking) and something lit up in my soul.  I felt like God was speaking to me directly when I read the words of Jesus. It changed me that day and I knew God was real.

You can know Jesus is real also. I pray that God would open your eyes to Him.  Open your heart to want to be free, healed and delivered from sin. It does not matter what mistakes  you may have made over your lifetime.  What matters is that you are willing to go to Jesus and ask Him to forgive you. Repent, or turn away from your sin, begin a new life free from your past and get to know our Heavenly Father, the Holy spirit, and Jesus Christ, who are one.  

Jesus, the son of God, was sent by God to earth to die on the cross for all of our sin.  God knew before the foundation of the earth that we would never be able to go to heaven on our own good works.  We needed the blood of Jesus, the perfect sacrifice, to set us free eternally.  His love, the love and sacrifice of Jesus, is the one who gives us joy, peace and love. He gave us purpose and value that nobody can ever take away.  

Life is short.  Get to know your savior today.  He will change your life for the better. Knowing that you were not an accident and that you do have purpose on this earth, will deeply change your soul.  If you are ready to be born- again (spiritually), let us pray right now....

Dear Heavenly Father,

I ask that you forgive me of all my sin.  I repent from all my mistakes and bad habits that do not glorify you or help me in my life journey.  I want to begin a new life with you Jesus.  My past is yours and behind me. I look forward to your wisdom and guidance today and moving forward. I want to know you and learn your promises in scripture.  I thank you Lord Jesus for dying on the cross for me. It is your sacrifice that is setting me free today.  Amen!

If you prayed that prayer to God, please feel free to email me at sftsblended@gmail.com and I will email you a NEW BELIEVER'S Guide to Victorious Living! 

                                                Bible Scriptures for you to read 

2 Corinthians 5:17  Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation: old things have passed away, behold, all things have become new.    

1 Peter 1:18-19    Knowing that you were not redeemed with corruptible things like silver and gold, from your aimless conduct received by tradition from your fathers, but with the precious blood of Jesus Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot.

John 3:16   For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him, should not perish but have everlasting life.

If you need prayer, please ask me in your email and I will respond.  God bless you!! I can't wait to hear from you. Let's do this together!

Eileen

Updates and New Links Here! Thanks for Sharing too!

 

Welcome to the NEW Success From The Source!

My name is Eileen Brigantino and I will be focusing on Christian Moms/Grandmoms with families who I can encourage and bring some hope and faith during difficult situations that arise.  If you are not yet a follower of Jesus Christ, you have also come to the right place!  My mission and calling is to share the Bible, the gospel of Jesus and pray for the community of ladies who follow me here.   To build a family of Moms/Grandmoms with love and wisdom for one another.  

The time is now!  The world is going absolutely nuts, while we are working, taking our kids to school, going to church and trying to assist those that may need help in many ways.  Life goes on but seeing what is going on out there, in the news and in the world, can be a bit nerve racking.  We will trust God in all things.  We will find comfort in knowing that our Heavenly Father is with us every step of the way in our daily journeys.  He will  never leave us and He will guide us in the right direction individually.

Remember this:  In the book of Jeremiah chapter 1, verse 5, God says, Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you; Before you were born, I sanctified you. I ordained you a prophet to the nations.

Romans 8:28 says:  And we know that ALL things work together for our good to those who Love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. 

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God's Calling Brings Spiritual Attacks?

 

Yes, it can, because the devil doesn't want you to speak God's truth!  By the time you are drawn by the Holy Spirit to step out by faith to fulfill your calling, you understand this is very possible, so do not have any fear.

I'm going through this right now.  Over the past few weeks, right after I announced my journey into sharing the Gospel of Jesus online, the enemy began attacking my husband and I spiritually.  That is also why I have not been online, due to the attacks but I'm posting now here and also on my youtube channel again, beginning today, Thursday, September 4, 2025.  

Most of the attacks have been coming from a neighbor.  Without sharing any personal information, it has been difficult and we have had to really pray for wisdom and clarity on how to handle the situation.  God wants us to love our neighbor, even the ones who are not mentally all there.  So, we took the reigns and told the devil to "get off our property and stop harassing us, spiritually."  We have authority, from God's Word to stand our ground and we did.  

Immediately after that, I began getting pain in my back and right leg. It started very small but gradually got more and more painful. I figured it was Sciatica, went to a doctor who gave me an x-ray to confirm it. I am getting older, but I've always been very healthy so this hit me heard, literally.  Another attack to try and discourage and slow me down on my calling.  God has me and He Has you too!  

***This paragraph above is an update to my original post in September of 2025. Today is now January 24, 2026. I am officially much better with the sciatica symptoms! Thank God. 

Remember this: God never promised that we wouldn't face attacks.  He did promise to walk through the valley of the shadow of death, and other tribulations, with us. We are not alone in the fire.  He is always there to defend and uphold us every step of the way.  The way I see it, is the spiritual attack confirmed my calling. It wasn't just the neighbor. There were other things happening during the same time frame that was totally new and confusing, but we knew that God had us and we stood our ground, by faith. 

The Heaviness Is Gone!!

Do you know what it is like to wake up everyday feeling so much weight on your shoulders and pain in your heart, trying to believe God to help you?  Well, I do too and I felt it for a couple of years.  The heaviness was mostly due to listening to lies from the enemy.  I listened to those lies because I had a problem drinking wine, which effects our mental capacity.  God delivered me when I came to the end of my own strength and was ready to surrender all to Him. 

It is truly amazing how God uses things we choose with our own mind to open our eyes to understanding and having faith. He is faithful and wants us to see Him and follow Him.  To draw near to Him and know Him.  Sometimes it may take a lifetime or you may get it when you are young. That's OK. It took me until I was 59 years old to see him more intimately.  My eyes are open now and I want to be close to Him. I pray that if you are not there yet, that you will get there. 

There is no better feeling in life than to know that God is there for you and with you even in the hard times.   So many people fall away from their faith because they think that a good God would not allow bad to happen to us.   Not true. Once you have been through the fire and came out healed and changed, you then see God in a whole new light.  It changes you.  It did change me in such a positive spiritual way that is difficult to fully explain.  All I can do is share my journey and bring encouragement to anyone who needs it.  I'm not the only follower of Jesus who has experienced this. There are many. And I'm not bragging at all. My heart is humbled and I give Jesus all the glory and Credit for the change He made in me. 

Just know this:  God is loving and merciful to all.  He loves you more than you can ever understand.  Seek Him with all your heart and He will reveal Himself when you are ready to see Him. 

Prayer works! Just a little faith and God will move mountains!

Spiritual Warfare Prayer

 

            

A close friend of mine shared a book with me about prayer called, Spiritual Warfare Prayers, written by Bern Zumpano,  published in 1999.  This book is packed with scripture, how to pray with authority and sample prayers. Excellent resource that I will use here in this chapter.  I will also share a few short videos about spiritual warfare.  So important and much needed for us all! 

When we pray as believers, we have authority given by God to move mountains and remove evil from our homes, thoughts and situations that may come up in life. This includes our family, spouse, friends, work, church, and just everyday happenings. To break chains and generational curses from our family history so we can be FREE.   

Our prayers should be authoritative and not begging God because He has given us power to bind evil spirits on earth. Matthew 16:19  

He gives us authority to trample on serpents and scorpions (spiritually) Luke 10:19

He who is in you, is greater than He who is in the world. 1 John 4:4

We wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, powers, rulers of darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places. Take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to STAND.  Ephesians 6:12-13

These are just a few scriptures on how we have authority to pray, stand against evil and have victory.  We need to trust God, even when we do not understand what God is actually doing, or it looks like He isn't answering the way we want or when we want.  God is all knowing and will never leave us!  He goes with us through the fire and delivers us from it for His Glory.  

Having been in the "fire" in my last trial in my life, I am so amazed and grateful to God for all that I have learned and grown so deeply in my faith due to it.  It's not punishment. The devil is a liar! Trust God who is our creator and knows what is best for us. It's not easy, I understand, because I've been through it.  

Remember, God's Word is a lamp unto our feet and a light unto our path.  Let's study God's promises so that we can endure the difficult paths we go through. Once we get through it, I promise you will see clearer how God works and be so grateful for the journey. 

New Youtube Channel!

 Here is my official testimony video that goes with my previous post. Enjoy! 

                https://youtu.be/wfGoiuZl5f0?si=A3fSFKBQhjcRZe59

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Dedication To My Mom's Life And Memory

                                                 In Loving Memory Of My Mother

My mom passed away on April 17, 2025.  She was almost 84 years old. She was a good mom who did her very best to love her family.  She gave her heart to Jesus when I was around 11 years old and began attending a beautiful church.  I went with her and gave my heart to Jesus shortly after.  I'm so grateful to God for growing up in a good church that changed my life in such a positive way. I can't imagine living my life without knowing Jesus Christ and the promises He gave us in His Word, the Bible. Thank you Mom!

Deliverance From Alcoholism-Do Not Give Up!

 

   I want to introduce to you my testimony of God's grace and mercy recently.  There are no words to describe how blessed and free I am now.  I'll try to explain it in detail here. It is my hope and prayer that you will be encouraged and come to a place of victory with whatever type of deliverance you need.      

    Three months ago today, I heard a song on Christian radio that completely got me praying out of desperation and heartache, while driving to the supermarket.  The song, "Desperate" by Jamie McDonald catapulted me over the edge into having more hope and faith needed for deliverance from alcohol.  I was desperate. When I got home,  I played it again and fell to my knees crying like a baby because I did not want to fall into that pit ever again.  In the morning I heard a really good message on a pastors you tube channel that God put in my place to listen.  There was so much heaviness in my heart and over my shoulders by then. He lifted every ounce of heaviness from me and since then I have not had a single desire or temptation to fall into that trap again. It was truly a miracle and I was so set free and filled with the joy of the Lord that I was in shock....I kept hitting myself, thinking "God!? You really healed me God, I'm in so much shock!"

     I truly was tired of not honoring my Lord and savior, Jesus Christ, who suffered and died on the cross for me so I could have victory and deliverance over that behavior. That pastor also was used by God to bring to light, God's truth. If you are tired of being stuck and not knowing how to stop, please Know that the devil is a liar.  God wants us all set free but we need to make the decision to want to stop.  

    I began drinking wine a little at a time about 20 years ago. It wasn't until 10 years ago that I started to drink more regularly.  Because it is not typically considered a "hard" drink and it's socially acceptable, I just got hooked before I even realized it.  The truth is, wine is a mind altering drug.  God does not want our minds altered or drugged up because it effects your ability to hear His Voice and make solid choices.  Most people do not start drinking to become alcoholics.  Most times, you wake after a horrible night of not remembering anything that happened due to your heavy drinking and you still don't realize you have a problem.  About 9 years ago, I began to realize my problem was getting worse but I denied it and kept drinking.  Then, some serious issued happened with my adult kids and I crashed so hard from pain that only made me want to drink more.

    My first mistake was falling into the trap of drinking a glass every night. No big deal right?  Boy, was I wrong! Then during difficult times, my brain went to the bottle to use alcohol to numb the pain.  The more pain I felt, the more I drank.  We all understand that no matter what drink, drug or bad habit we use, the pain is only "numb" temporarily, which is why we keep ingesting it!  Instead of me running to my Heavenly Father for comfort, I would just open another bottle.  Instead of me reading God's word and remembering all His promises about how much He loves us and how valuable we are to Him, I listened to the enemy who wants all of us feeling down, depressed and valueless.  The lies would not stop because I was too busy feeling sorry for myself.  I had to go through that fire, endure the pain of falling away from my faith.   My thoughts were, "how can I not feel pain when my kids who I absolutely adore have estranged from me. I literally thought the pain could not ever go away. Well, the devil is a brutal liar and his plans are to try to steal, kill and destroy us.  The more we listen to his lies and forget God's promises, the more power you give the devil and you will never have deliverance.  That journey truly brought me to where I am today and I am so grateful to God.  

    God is faithful and He loves you! No matter where you are in your walk with God, or no walk with God, He wants to set you free and fill you with His Holy spirit who loves and comforts us.  It did take me about 3 failed attempts over the past 3 years of trying to quit on my own before I finally gave it all to God, asked for His forgiveness and strength to stay clean.  He did it! God wants us free and He is waiting for us to totally surrender our weaknesses, our temptations, and anything that is keeping us from seeking God and desiring to know Him intimately. 

Long Overdue Updates

 In March of 2023, I believe that God led Eric and I to begin our journey with Success From The Source.  We had just made a huge move from Florida to Tennessee and were still settling in. I thought we would start out slowly and eventually get to creating a full time ministry online for Christian blended families.  

Well, that hasn't happened yet due to so many family issues that have come up since then.  My Mom just passed away yesterday. She was ill for about 3 years, since before we moved to Tennessee. That alone was mentally and spiritually time consuming.  We traveled back and forth to Florida for her and other family gatherings that we needed to attend.  We still have my father who is in an assisted living facility currently due to his memory issues at the age of 84.  So, I just felt that it was necessary to let our followers know what has been going on. 

Because of all of these events, we moved our website into a blog for now. At some point this year, Lord willing, we will continue our journey with more intention and planning. Due to the fact that our 6 kids are all adults living on their own now, we will focus more on Christian family values and relationships, and not just blended family issues. Thank you so much for reaching out to us and we appreciate your support.

Mom visiting us last summer 2024

Marriage

     

This is my 2nd marriage and my forever marriage.  We can say that we truly know each other after being together meeting over 23 years ago.  He gets me. He understands me totally. I get him and understand him. We did not get each other totally when we met but after all this time, we really do now.  

    It took probably the first 10 years to really solidify our love.  Years of difficulty and trying times from outside sources mostly. But we got through it because we were committed to each other.  He saw how much I appreciated him and all he did.  He was and is our bread winner.  I never thought he should come home and do more work in the house and so I made sure he had dinner on the table, the house was decent and laundry was done. I worked on and off most of these past 21 years married, mostly independent jobs and business but he supported me and that made it so much more special.  

    The most important thing we all can to do is respect and support our spouse when it comes to making decisions.  The husband and wife need to work together in all decisions and be sure that you both are on the same page, whatever page that is.  We were able to communicate with each other daily so there was hardly ever any surprises.  I wanted him to be happy so I gave him my all. He wanted me to be happy so he gave me his all. That’s what is comes down to in a nut shell. 

    If you are upset and feel that you are doing more than your supposed to, have a conversation with your spouse about it in a loving way.  Don’t allow yourself to build up disappointment. Direct Communication is key.  Remember why you decided to get married. 

4 Blended Family Foundations for Christians

     There are 4 important foundations necessary to your success as a blended family. First, your relationship with your creator is key. Our love for Jesus Christ and following Him gives us strength and patience, forgiveness and love for others especially our own family. Next, your relationship with your spouse and how you work together in your new marriage is going to get you through difficult times. Your commitment to each other and to raising all the kids as a new family is important. When you both decided to get married, you knew it would be blended because of the fact you both had kids from a previous relationship. Hopefully, you both truly love each other and are willing to make your new marriage and family successful and blessed.

      The second pillar is building unification and trust in your newly blended family. Creating new traditions like church attendance and prayer together, loving support, regular specific time together as a family and open communication when needed. The kids will need to get to know you and each other in the home. You will need to learn how to relate to each child and work together as husband and wife with discipline and understanding especially in the beginning.

    Third, learning how to co-parent with your Ex. This is huge and is usually the biggest issue in the blended family. You do not want to allow outside influences to get between you and your spouses relationship. Respect and honor are necessary with the biological parents who are not in the home. Responding to them peacefully, even if they are not nice to you. Remember, they may not be on the same page as you and you can not control their behavior. Only yours. So, keeping the peace for the kids sake and the peace of your home is important.

    Fourth, understand your boundaries as a step parent. As a step parent you are NOT THE parent but a loving adult who cares about your step kids as IF they were your own. We must allow our spouse to co parent with their Ex without too much interference. A major problem that I have seen over the years is when the Moms sometimes compete with who is the boss because as a step mom you are now married to a man who you believe should be pleasing you and not the Ex. But when it comes to the kids, he should be trying to co parent, not to please you or the EX, But to make sure the kids understand they are loved and parented by both of their biological parents.

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