If you are a Christian parent of an adult Child who has left your life recently, let it be known that this is an ongoing situation happening very often. There are many reasons for this and it's all demonic in nature. If the devil can influence our adult kids to see us as small, unimportant and unloving individuals...in order to break down the family, disrespect and dishonor the parents who raised them and loves them unconditionally.... what do you think their kids will do to them? They obviously do not believe that they do anything wrong and if they did do something wrong, it would not be nearly as bad as our asking them to not ignore us while sitting in our home. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but the devil is a liar and I have seen literally thousands of Christian mother's in a social media group I'm in, with broken hearts due to their adult kids arrogant and abusive behavior. We as Christian Moms and Dads, are in spiritual warfare and need to pray and fight for our Adult kids.
Am I saying we are all perfect?? NO. For the most part, these parents have made some mistakes but have tried to make things right and nothing is good enough. Many are not even sure what they did! I'm not here to make excuses for anyone's behavior but I am saying that 99% of the moms who are going through this for no major apparent reason that would be good enough for their adult kids to choose to never speak to them again...love and forgive their kids unconditionally. It's our adult kids who are loosing out so much by walking away. We will never walk away unforgiving and not giving grace to our kids because that is how God made us.
Yes, it's painful but our concerns should be more for what is spiritually going on with our kids that made them choose to walk away. We, as parents, will do everything that we can from our end to make things right. Let's continue praying for our kids that God would infiltrate their heart to do the right thing. If they are hurting for any reason, we pray that God would heal their hearts and emotions.
